Your Most Strategic Relationship

September 7, 2009 @ 11:02 am

by Chad Hennings

The most strategic relationship in our lives as believers is, not surprisingly, our relationship with God.  I see many men today confused about God‚Äôs hand in their life.  For example, in our unstable economic climate, an unemployed worker may hold firm to the belief that God will provide for him.  As Psalm 104 states, God provides for the animals, His children‚Äîand we as humans fall under that umbrella.  So the unemployed worker checks out, waiting for God to deliver.  But that‚Äôs not what the psalm means.
Nowhere is work ethic as important as in our connection to He who created us.  Our relationship with God is a strategic one.  ‚ÄúA man‚Äôs heart deviseth his way,‚Äù reads Proverbs 16:9, ‚Äúbut the Lord directeth his steps.‚Äù  In modern parlance, I will call this ‚Äúnoggin navigation.‚Äù  A friend coined this term and I practiced this technique many times with my son on outings when he was young.  I would keep a hand on his head, directing him to go here but not there.  He was doing the walking; I was only navigating.  That‚Äôs how God works with us.  We perform the actions, and God does the guiding.
The belief that God will open all the doors for you is partly true:  He will open them, but you must uphold your end of the relationship by looking for them and walking through them.  God is not going to carry you through.  Although He can, but that is more the exception as opposed to the rule.  You must do your share of the work in order to enjoy results.  As Benjamin Franklin once said, ‚ÄúGod helps those who help themselves.‚Äù
In Deuteronomy, when the children of Israel left Egypt for the promised land of Canaan, they were continually battling opponents.  Before Joshua took over as leader of the Israelites, God told him, ‚ÄúBe strong and of good courage.  Fear not, nor be afraid of them.‚Äù  Sometimes the Israelites faced fierce combat; other times God fought the battle for them, slaying their foes before they even arrived on the battlefield.  However, the Israelites never knew beforehand what they would face, but they went anyway, prepared for anything, knowing God was on their side.  Sometimes God blesses us, and sometimes He surprises us.  But no matter what we may face, we must hold strong to our beliefs, work towards our goal, and pray that the Lord will bless our steps ( as long as they don’t contradict His word and common sense).
The things I‚Äôve cherished most in life are the things I‚Äôve worked hardest for.  In all of my achievements, God has been by my side, guiding my next move.  He‚Äôs been cheering me on, monitoring my progress, and spurring me toward greater success.  My determination and solid work ethic has provided the fuel for my accomplishments, while God has navigated through them all.
God wants nothing more than to harness your work ethic for His glory.  If you give him that opportunity, you‚Äôll unleash the potential within yourself to do all you ever dreamed. 

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  1. Great words of encouragement Chad. It’s funny how many times we think if God is in something then it’s going to be easy when the bible is full of so many stories where this is just NOT the case at all. In fact, it’s hard to find examples of when it is the case.

    Take Joseph for example. Now here’s a guy blessed by God. He was given a dream by God and when he told his brothers he was viewed as an arrogant punk.

    Joseph’s reward for hearing from God was that his brother’s sold him into slavery after dumping him into a pit. Now was that God’s fault or Joseph’s immaturity?

    Joseph’s confidence in God and deep understanding that God is good allowed him to be blessed in the strangest of circumstances. Situations that would have me screaming, “Why me God?”, Joseph considered the fact that God came in at just the right moment.

    At just the right moment, his brother’s got mad at him.

    At just the right moment, they threw Joseph in a pit.

    At just the right moment, a caravan came by.

    At just the right moment, he was sold into slavery.

    At just the right moment, Potiphar’s wife came on to him. (Now that had to take strength!)

    At just the right moment, she accused him of raping her.

    At just the right moment, he was thrown into prison.

    At just the right moment, he was given watch over the prison.

    At just the right moment, he was made head of the prisoners.

    Satan want’s us to give up on Christ. He knows that each of us have a chapter in the story of redemption and satan wants to ruin our story.

    His attack is simple. It is called temptation. We can learn from Joseph to not fall for the temptation that God is not there, that He is not good or that He is a sleep at the wheel. Satan wants us to give up on God by having us believe God has given up on us.

    Why would God let this happen? This is satan’s most fundamental temptation. It leads us to the next question.

    Why can’t I do whatever I want?

    We can learn from Joseph’s life. If God is good then I know I will be blessed by resisting temptation no matter what the circumstances around me.

    Easier said then done? Not if God is your most strategic relationship!

    Mike Tobias on September 23, 2009 @ 2:20 pm

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